Wishing we were like “others” or feeling inadequate next to another individual’s accomplishment is not only a defeatist type of view, but did you know that it can defy all we know as Christians? The answer is yes, it most certainly can when you consider that God made each of us, and put us together precisely, and exactly as we should be, ready to do what He created us to do! Amen!
Going beyond our physical characteristics of eye color, hair color, height, race, so on and so forth…we are all created by one God, and one God alone, who made us exactly as we should be.
So, guess what? When I attempt to sing a song, I may carry a tune. However, I assure you that I’m also going to clear the room and send dogs and cats running as far away from my voice as their little legs can carry them. While another individual will bring people into the room listening to a voice that can only come from God Himself.
What’s my point? We need to be happy and satisfied with who we are, and with what gifts the Father has given us. After all, He spent an incredible amount of time choosing our parents, our conception, and our birth. And we are who we are because of who He is, and we are all the same in His eyes, irrespective of our background, our singing voice, or in my case lack of singing voice. It is in preparation for what we do, how we live, who we are.
I’m an introvert. My sister is an over-the-top extrovert! My brother is in between. Same parents, upbringing, but different personalities, all from God. My brother can play various instruments, my sister is a phenomenal public speaker. Whereas I wouldn’t be able to stand in front of an audience, let alone to speak.
I’d rather write a thousand-word essay in college; my sister would rather stand in class and speak her answers. My brother could do both. I am horrible with numbers, my brother excels at that, my sister too. Again, all siblings, yet all different in gifts.
Nursing homes depress my sister and brother. I felt alive and useful tending to those in need, caring for the infirmed and disabled. My gift from above. My sister’s gift was being a nurse in pediatrics, my brother was being an accountant. All different, all useful, but again different gifts.
So, the next time you say, “Oh I wish I had blue eyes” Remember, God made yours brown for a reason. Or I wish I was an extrovert, well God made you an introvert for reasons that you may never know, or eventually know…but accept it graciously and know who created you.
Being an introvert worked beautifully for me as I tended one-on-one to the residents/patients. Or working with individual family members concerning their loved ones. So, my personality was geared towards my career, and I thank God for it.
Have you thanked God for your gifts today?
Do you recognize that you are who you are because of Him?
And do you realize that He never makes mistakes?
Aren’t you happy that there is only one “you?”
And aren’t you even happier there is only one God?