I’m really missing my mom. Especially with the Holiday movies on Hallmark. She loved Christmas movies, something she passed on to me. But, Mom is with the Lord in a much better place, fully restored. No more pain, no more tears, no more hurt– Praise God. However, to those she left behind, we’re missing her like crazy. My heart hurts from missing her, so much so that I feel physically ill at times. I get through it…as others do when they’re in mourning, by His comfort, His word and the belief of knowing we will meet again, and it’ll be forever when we do.
The Bible is filled with many passages and stories about mourning. In Genesis I immediately think of Joseph and his father Jacob. First thought was when Jacob cried bitterly when his sons informed him of Joseph’s “death.” He mourned, wept, tore his clothes, and travailed of his beloved son Joseph’s “demise.” Of course Joseph wasn’t dead, rather a pawn in his brother’s wicked plans to be rid of him due to jealousy. God, turned that evil into good for Joseph to save His people and became the second most powerful man at the time.
Many years later they shared a loving reunion when his father came to live in Egypt. Their time together was precious, but when his father died…Joseph mourned deeply… “Then Joseph fell on his father’s face, and wept over him, and kissed him. And Joseph commanded his servants the physicians to embalm his father. So the physicians embalmed Israel. Forty days were required for him, for such are the days required for those who are embalmed; and the Egyptians mourned for him seventy days” (Genesis 50:1-3)
There are other passages on mourning, “Mary and Martha crying for their brother Lazarus” where the shortest passage in the Bible is recorded, “Jesus wept” (John 11:35.) Jesus, of course performed a miracle, and Lazarus was brought back to life, to which they all began to celebrate and rejoice. And the glory of God was manifested and revealed through that act by Jesus.
We, as Christians celebrate knowing that although our loved ones leave us when they pass away… it is only a temporary absence. It is but a twinkiling of the eye compared to eternity to share with them in paradise. We ache for them, mourning appropriately and go through all stages of grief…but, we manage to go on thanks be to the grace of God.
When we leave our “temporary residence” which is to say “our fleshly bodies” we will be in our spiritual bodies and face to face with Jesus, Hallelujah!
So, when I have my moments of missing Mom, I feel His comfort as He reaches deep within my heart and soul…I hear Him whispering to me offering words of love, “this is a temporary loss, hold on to your memories and cherish the time you’ve shared, you will be with your loved ones again…sometime in the future.” This reasurrance and trust in God is what gets me through the “tough days” of wanting to hear her voice and speak with her again. Or to share something with her that I know that she’d enjoy. I stop and realize she’s enjoying something at that very moment, peace and love of God in heaven.
So, when I feel His comfort and hear His words in the Bible, You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; You have loosed my sackcloth and girded me with gladness (Psalm 30:11) I smile knowing that this is “temporary” and we all have a job to complete here on earth. My Mom’s time was finished, she completed her purpose and now is with God…through her outstanding parental show of love, and with God’s loving promises, I go on…as so many of us mourning do.
How amazing is our Father? A Father who loves us and reaches down to comfort us at our darkest hour…and always shines His brilliant light breaking through our darkness, scattering away the suffocating grief, letting the rainbow and sunshine burst forth into our realm…would you agree that He is AMAZING?
And, Mom…I know you’re happy with Jesus and reunited with Daddy… and so…that makes me truly happy. It is well with my soul.
But, I’ll always miss you. Until I see you once again..but next time, it’s FOREVER!
Thanks be to God, all glory and honor belong to Him, now and always… Amen!
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Isaiah 61:1-3New King James Version (NKJV)
The Good News of Salvation
61 “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me,
Because the Lord has anointed Me
To preach good tidings to the poor;
He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives,
And the opening of the prison to those who are bound;
2 To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord,
And the day of vengeance of our God;
To comfort all who mourn,
3 To console those who mourn in Zion,
To give them beauty for ashes,
The oil of joy for mourning,
The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness;
That they may be called trees of righteousness,
The planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.”